* added non-pod data support to events (event delete can now call dtors)
* improved cleanup of ipc message objects (because of non-pod event data support)
* moved the "message received" event up to ipc server and client (passed on from proxies)
* raised the log-to-console level to DEBUG2
* added force option to ipc log buffer (to side-step the anti-recursion "mechanism")
* made relauncher always relay server/client messages to ipc client (gui)
added hack to daemon to suppresses service controller false positive error.
tidied up a few of the log lines to make the place look nicer for newbies.
removed annoying build line from dist command.
